Another new month has started. 8 months have gone in a second and so will rest of year, Need to sit and analyse where am I going and what I want in coming months, all I have realized is life is proper planning and execution, I need to work on my execution part.
Proper planning solves 90% of problems, for example take Bill Payments or Credit Card payments, sometimes you miss dates because it slips off the mind, Make a entry in planner that you will pay electricity bill on a fixed date every month, since bills are generated on the same date, you will never miss the bill payment date. Fine tune the system and expand it to twelve months. Simple.
For god sake buy a diary/planner and let your life become easy.
Once you have perfected the planner, you will never miss important dates no matter what happens, all your friends birthdays, bill payments, meeting with girl friend (which you never do), anniversaries, and so on.
After realizing the need of proper planning I need to work on it as well.
Many a times you find a friend who understands you to the core. Make you feel important and motivates you to do good and better and be best. Such perfect people are rarest of species, how many friends of yours do you have who are like this, who never ask you for anything and all they want is good for you 24×7.
Life is strange, when you have lots of friends you don’t value them, when they start leaving you, you realise their value, when the last few are left you are working hard to keep them, the last one to go is toughest. You just don’t want your last friend to go but you know you can’t stop him either. He goes bids you final bye. Your eyes are into tears. Oh God! What’s happening? Just Stop it.
A friend of mine says Love is Crap! Is it! Love is the best thing in the world, Have a look around you, would this world exist without love, will friends be there, will your parents, relatives be there, will you ever have good neighbours without them, Not-possible-without-love. Hard to make some people understand.
Saying Bye to a friend is very tough, it gets so tough for u, you just can’t say it. It gets tougher because you know the time spent together is not going to come back. The movies, good food, jokes, good time is going to be in memories only.
Good Friend Leave due to
* Wrong Communication
* Lack of Understanding
* Poor Relationship
* Sacrifice
* Ego Problems
My apologies for not attending BlogCampMumbaiStyle on Saturday. I was supposed to be there but couldn’t make it due to personal reasons. I wanted to be there but couldnt.
I wanted to meet you all and see the bloggers and how you people are changing the world in your own way.
I am sure it would have been fun interacting with you. Learning new stuff, meeting people and interacting is what I would love to do.
I promise to meet you all people and make up for this mistake in the upcoming Blog Camp near you.
I feel very sorry for not being there and just wanted to say Sorry.
This has never happened in my life. Life has been teaching me with important lessons. The latest lesson costed me Rs 70000. I have been cheated by a expert. Master of words. Last year I started a project with the respected person. It was decided that we will make a world famous website (his words) and he will do the coding for the project. I gave him Rs 70000 upfront and it was decided he will start the work. He has some home cum office in city. I came back to Mumbai. He was supposed to send me a demo and we were supposed to do change in that. The work never started. He said he had some work and he will do it next month. The next month came and then the next. I constantly called him up and he came up with excuses. Six months passed. Then i realised this cheater was working on something else i.e some personal stuff. He told me abt the site and told me it was being made and i will be part of it. I asked please clear the terms.and conditions and ownership issues abt the new site, he never cleared the stuff nor told me anything else. Then one year passed. I gave him ultimatum that give money back or make the site that you promised. Now here comes the funny part. he said he had bought computers with my money and he has been using them for personal use. Then 1 month passed he gave me some lame code which was 200kb file and never ran on any of servers. I asked for my money and he stopped replying then posted to his orkut and he sends me a invoice with Rs 92000 with US Rates (funny). I was discussing the issue with his partner who used to live with him at that point of time, he told me that he was also cheated. So what do i get in return
A lesson in life, Never pay 100 percent in advance.
Dont Trust such people.
People who showoff that is talk more work less can deceive you.
Clear out everything and do proper paper work.
I could have easily busted that guy, there are 1000 ways, like i have all messenger chats and mails or i could easily name that guy, mail this to all his friends in Orkut or make a site, blog on any site and paste the real chat contents but I just want to conside it as price of lesson that life teaches you. May be this lesson savesl me 100 times in future. I wish that guy all the best in his life and lots of progress and a small message for hime
Don’t worry about the money, keep it as a gift from your elder brother and ask for more if you need but dont cheat anyone.
Everthing that you do has a reason, a reason to justify your actions. A reason good enough to force you to do things. Something similar happened with me recently I was asked for a reason, i was supposed to give reason and explain certain things like my motives behind a activity. Reminds me that ” Every murder must have a motive”. I couldnt give a simple reason to my actions. Couldn’t explain my stand on the issue and in result was left out to think over.
The Crux of all this is “If there is no reason and your friends convince you that it is then it is.” Because your friends are your well wishers, they protect you from your new friends (who might be fooling around with you). Never Trust new friends if they don’t give you enough reason for their actions even you are involved in it. Always think what people will say if they find out and do stuff according to that. Don’t bother much. Just Chill. Take a Chill Pill. Have a explanation ready for everything that you do.
If any stranger is too good to you, Smell Foul, Get Away until he justifies his goodness. No one is allowed to be too good or bad. Just like a website
Keep Distance and constantly remind others that you want to keep distance.
Always trust your old friends, they have Good PR and tons of backlinks and hence good TrustRank. (Backlinks count)
Never Trust New friends like new websites. Give them down to settle down, (Older the better.)
Trust people who belive in long term relationships and not one night stand. (Always book domain names for 10 years rather then 1 year.)
How stupid I can be, What kind of idiot I am, No wonder I am a waste, Chill. Take a chill pill, whats going on. How many times I have forgotten peoples birthday, anniversaries, Even i remember i have forgotten exam schedule (twice, in class VI, and Class IX). Even i forgot few dates which i thought i would never forget in my life. I need to overcome this bad habit of mine, very soon. It makes things worse for me. I use this blog as a medium to all apologise to all my friends, relatives, enemies, strangers, everyone if you have felt irritated, sad, disappointed, whatever applicable for my stupidity of forgetting things.
What is it? A Metrosexual life? I think I wont understand it ever.Why? Living in Mumbai from past years and still i feel i m new to this new city. I see things as if I am seeing that first time. It still amuses me, entertains me. Born in Mumbai and living here 3/4th of my life and still feeling like a stranger is strange. I know stuff but not enough. Everytime i go to a good restaurant, a shopping mall. I am amused. I cant even think of a single reason why do i feel like that.
Last year when i was in Orrisa, I visited Bhubneshwar and Cuttak, I felt so homely, I felt i knew every street out there, i could figure out things there, i knew the roads in and out, same happened when i was visiting kashmir, i felt that i was my own country. I have recognized Darjeeling, Patnitop roads by just seeing them once. I have spent 1-3 days and i feel i know the space so well, but when it comes to mumbai, i feel like a stranger.
I dont know any of restaurants, shopping malls, movie theatres, I just dont feel like going there, having fun, Coz this is my city, it take it for granted. I need to learn about my own city so that i know in and out of it.
Hopefully I get to know the city where i have to spend my life. (Hopefully Not.)
For past 5 years, I have broken all the rules that are supposed to be followed. Staying Awake in Night! Working Long Hours! No Time Table! No System! No Rules! The only rule i have followed is break all the rules.
But! Now! The Things are changing! I realize that i was not right doing all that. So from past 1 Week I have been trying something Different like getting up on time, walking in evening, giving more time to family and trust me its not very easy to do so. Like i wake up in nights! Miss my sleeping in office.
The other surprise comes from fact that I wont be working on sundays! Yes you read it right. NO working on sundays! Sundays are meant for Relaxation, Shopping, Time with family and friends.
I believe I will be more productive in these 8 hrs i work then 20-21 hrs i used to work.
Also Another suprise is that i am following a schedule. Schedule for new lifestyle and work. Good!
I should maintain this new lifestyle. Hopefully! So where does this new change come from. Is this some sort of Self Relalization (I have done that 1000 times before), or somewhere else remains a mystery for everyone. There are some people guessing though but i dont want to fuel the fire of speculation. Lol.
Everyday for 2 hrs I am also being forced to sharpen my language skills. Which is good again. I love mewadi and it remains my fav language no matter what happens.
Also I have set a target of 1200 (some currency) per day to earn. That should be not tough if i work 8 hrs with concentration and its within my reach.
Also I should start writing a post on this blog a day.