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		<title>Paralysis Of Analysis</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Paralysis Of Analysis :  Over analyse the situation, bring in factors which are not required, make it complex which results in no action being taken. I suffer from this at times, where I tend to analyse the situation and analyse it again and then once more and then remain undecided. Like i have to attend  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paralysis Of Analysis :  Over analyse the situation, bring in factors which are not required, make it complex which results in no action being taken.</p>
<p>I suffer from this at times, where I tend to analyse the situation and analyse it again and then once more and then remain undecided.</p>
<p>Like i have to attend  a marriage party, Then look at clothes, think of people who are going to come, who is going from my family, look at factors like travel time, urgency, weather, tv serials that are going to come, complete the important work which is not that important (it seems on that day), argue with mom of advantages of not going, shoes are not matching, where is my belt, oh socks where are they, no petrol in bike, how will three people go on bike, my friends are coming over, i have other commitments, too much work is there&#8230;</p>
<p>The list seems endless, from a mood to go it turns chodo yaar, kya jana</p>
<p>Or when we want to buy a stock, we think on a similar pattern, market is too up, oh market is falling, this stock has moved too fast, it looks expensive, if cheap why its so cheap, people don&#8217;t like it much, analyst are telling lies, it will go down further, it wont go up from here, brokerage is too much, its a small cap, or its too large to be called large cap, its earnings are not increasing fast, its growth is stalled, it has too much debt, Roi is not good, roi is good but Pe is not good, promoters are decreasing stake, or they are buying more inflating the price, mutual funds dont have this stock, mf are selling, it is not giving dividend, i  should have bought it earlier, and so on.</p>
<p>Again list  is endless..</p>
<p>We just over look benefits and are busy in stupid mind analytic with all factors which  are least important.</p>
<p>Just go to that party man and buy the stock you like with conviction which will come from experience and knowing which factor count and which done.  Be happy</p>
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		<title>Think Less do More</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why do we think think and think. and do less, less and less. Its how some people are made. I am one of them. Execution is key to success. Not thinking. get up do something. Now.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why do we think think and think.  and do less, less and less.<br />
Its how some people are made. I am one of them.<br />
Execution is key to success. Not thinking.<br />
get up do something. Now.</p>
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		<title>Simplify Life</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where is POP (plaster of paris) on ceiling. you didn&#8217;t do it? You should get it done? My mama said to me 3 yrs back when i bought new home, where i live. I smiled at what he said, and said &#8216; karwayenge&#8217; Every time my mama comes to my house and looks at ceiling, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Where is POP (plaster of paris) on ceiling.<br />
you didn&#8217;t do it?<br />
You should get it done?</p>
<p>My mama said to me 3 yrs back when i bought new home, where i live.</p>
<p>I smiled at what he said, and said  &#8216; karwayenge&#8217;</p>
<p>Every time my mama comes to my house and looks at ceiling, i cant stop smiling.</p>
<p>i think by doing pop, life will be complicated.</p>
<p>Why not live life simple to basic things required. why have 17 tones of blue.</p>
<p>Why have 70 shares of nail polish and equal number of lipstick.</p>
<p>Why have 12 underwear.?</p>
<p>Why have 3 nail cutters and 2 stapplers?</p>
<p>Why think the costliest stuff is best?</p>
<p>Why be running after brands?</p>
<p>Why have 9 pair of shoes?</p>
<p>why have 3 tv in house?</p>
<p>Why sell this 29 inch tv which was bought 2 years ago and buy 32 inch lcd tv?</p>
<p>Why change curtains every year?</p>
<p>What is this happening around me, around Us.</p>
<p>We are complicating things and our lives.</p>
<p>Wake up. Simplify life.</p>
<p>Declutter.</p>
<p>Relax.</p>
<p>Be happy with what you have </p>
<p>Be Zen.</p>
<p>Be Happy Forever</p>
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		<title>How do roads to all city malls lead to goa?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do roads to all city malls lead to goa? I found this secret this Saturday. A secret road. going straight to Goa. On Sunday my cousin came, we decided our usual time pass stuff, visit Inorbit mall. After wandering for 3 hours we found that the zing was missing. How many times we go [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do roads to all city malls lead to goa?</p>
<p>I found this secret this Saturday.  A secret road. going straight to Goa.<br />
On Sunday my cousin came, we decided our usual time pass stuff, visit Inorbit mall. After wandering for 3 hours we found that the zing was missing. </p>
<p>How many times we go to same mall, same stuff,same shops, same food,same falafal, pak gaye this time. </p>
<p>Then we decided that i do best, hit the road, no plan, no left right nothing decided&#8230;</p>
<p>Started with palm beach road, after 10kms, a right and road to uran, then to panvel. Then we decided to go a little farther  and then he took out his mobile and started music and them we cruised another 40kms. Every moment having fun, every moment.</p>
<p>We knew the road goes to Goa, every bit of us wanted to go to Goa. </p>
<p>Every reason like</p>
<p>- No petrol in bike<br />
- Less money<br />
- No extra clothes</p>
<p>was made to turn the bike, but the bike turned adamant, said no to take a u turn and return.</p>
<p>When you listen to your heart the true happiness comes. It was a happy moment.</p>
<p>Then we knew this was a good start, a start for future.</p>
<p>Then at pen we decided to turn back with heavy heart. The mind took over, a painful decision but we were happy. </p>
<p>In return we picked a big water melon to console ourselves.</p>
<p>The warm up ride for 3.5hrs was amazing.</p>
<p>Hope now you know, where to look for us when we go to the same mall.</p>
<p>How many times you have done same, listened to your heart and found yourself happy. Hit the road, its the best thing to do.</p>
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		<title>Long Live Rajnikant and Mithunda</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[in a movie, Mithun Da is having Brain Tumor which, according to the doctors can&#8217;t be cured and his death is imminent. In one of the fights, Our great Mithun Da is shot in the head. To everybody&#8217;s surprise , the bullet passes thru his head taking away the tumor along with it and he [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>   in a movie, Mithun Da is having Brain Tumor which, according to</p>
<p>   the doctors can&#8217;t be cured and his death is imminent. In one of the<br />
   fights, Our great Mithun Da is shot in the head. To everybody&#8217;s<br />
   surprise , the bullet passes thru his head taking away the tumor along<br />
   with it and he is cured.<br />
   Long Live Mithun Da and his &#8220;Assembly Line&#8221; Productions !!!</p>
<p>   In one of the movies, Mithun da is confronted with 2 gangsters. Mithun<br />
   da has a Gun but unfortunately only one bullet. Guess, what he<br />
   does&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
<p>   He holds a knife in his hand and shoots the bullet towards the<br />
   knife. The knife cuts the bullet in 2 pieces and kills both the<br />
   gangsters. Then, Mithun da say the following dialogue</p>
<p>   &#8220;Apun ka naam hai HIRA, Apun ne sabko Chiraa&#8221;.</p>
<p>   In one of the other movies, Mithun da is chased by a gangster. Apne<br />
   Mihtun da ke paas gun hai par goli nahi hai.<br />
   Guess, what he does&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;</p>
<p>   He waits for the gangster to shoot. As soon as the gangster<br />
   shoots, Mithun da opens the bullet compartment of his gun and<br />
   catches the bullet. Then, he closes the bullet compartment and fires<br />
   his gun. Bang&#8230; And the gangster dies&#8230;.</p>
<p>   What about this :-<br />
   can&#8217;t recollect the movie name but scene is like this -</p>
<p>   Our Mithun Da is put in a jail and he is wearing a cap &#8230;. then in<br />
   the cell he sees here and there and suddenly puts his finger in a<br />
   wall (uses his finger as drill machine) makes a hole .. then takes pen<br />
   out of his pocket puts the pen in the hole .. Then he takes off his<br />
   Cap and hangs it on the Pen &#8230;. style hai bhai &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
<p>   Scene this..!!!</p>
<p>   In the movie &#8220;Watan Ke Rakhwale&#8221; apna Mithun Da is in jail and<br />
   desperately wants to get out of that hell..What he does is simply<br />
   unimaginable..!!!!<br />
   He crawls like a Spiderman over a wall&#8230;a jail wall , that must<br />
   be about 50-60 ft high and jumps over&#8230;!!!<br />
   truly amazing..<br />
   This is a fine example of what a director can do when he has<br />
   nothing to think of.!!</p>
<p>   1.In movie tyagi,in the climax, the villain tries to<br />
   shoot the hero,rajni being there,jumps and catches the bullet in<br />
   hand.what a catch!<br />
   2. In movie Kundan,Dharamji gets very angry at the<br />
   gundas who r fighting with him,he sees a telephone booth,he takes it<br />
   in his might arms and throws it towards these gundas. grrrrrrrrrrr&#8230;</p>
<p>   This is sort of frustrating sometimes. But<br />
   anybody who has seen the movie, &#8220;Behind Enemy Lines&#8221; should know that<br />
   the same things probably even more exxagerated things happen out in<br />
   hollywood. For those who have not seen the movie letme entertain u<br />
   all.</p>
<p>   there is this climax scene where the hero is in<br />
   the middle of a wasteland in Bosnia. it is in a bckdrop of hills which<br />
   are covered with ice. so the visibility is pretty good, and the hero<br />
   is wearing a military outfit with a black jacket. He comes down to the<br />
   middle of this wasteland and he is being shot by ak47&#8242;s, tanks, rocket<br />
   from rocket launchers etc. (not knives u know). and our hero never<br />
   gets hurt, either the bosnian rebels were badly trained(which is<br />
   probably not the case-considering their genocidic tendencies) or they<br />
   are all blind.</p>
<p>   now what do u say to this????</p>
<p>   just have a look at these amazing fight<br />
   sequences, featuring<br />
   rajnikant&#8230;</p>
<p>   Sequence 1<br />
   Rajni gets to know that the villian is on the<br />
   the other side of a very<br />
   high wall. So high that Rajni can&#8217;t jump even if<br />
   he tries like one of<br />
   those superman techniques that heros normally<br />
   use. Rajni has to<br />
   desparalety kill the villian becoz its the<br />
   climax&#8230;Rajni suddenly<br />
   pulls<br />
   two guns from his pocket ( Prob a backup). He<br />
   flies one gun in the air<br />
   and when the gun has reached wall high, he<br />
   shoots the trigger of the<br />
   first gun in air, with his second gun. Now first<br />
   gun shoots the villian<br />
   and he is<br />
   dead!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
<p>   &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br />
   Sequence 2<br />
   Rajni is sitting on one side of a swimming pool<br />
   talking to the villain<br />
   (<br />
   who is bathing in the pool). On the other side<br />
   of the pool, six goondas<br />
   of the villain are standing. When the argument<br />
   gets heated, the<br />
   villain winks at his men &#038; each one throws a<br />
   knife at Rajini. Our hero<br />
   effortlessly catches all the knife in a single<br />
   hand (without putting<br />
   them down or switching hands after<br />
   catching!!!!). He then spreads them<br />
   out like a deck of playing cards in his hand(or<br />
   how some people spread<br />
   money) so<br />
   that all six knifes are visible (&#038;in order).He<br />
   then throws the knifes &#038;<br />
   kills all six goondas in one<br />
   go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />
   Isey Kehte hai 1 teer se 6 Shikaar.</p>
<p>   &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br />
   Sequence 3<br />
   Rajni, the police officer, is sitting on his<br />
   motorcycle under a coconut<br />
   tree&#8230;<br />
   when he sees a couple of villans escaping in a<br />
   car&#8230;. he holds the<br />
   clutch, puts his bike in gear&#8230;&#8230;.takes his<br />
   gun&#8230;fires<br />
   upwards&#8230;.the<br />
   coconut falls on the starter&#8230;.. rajni realeses<br />
   clutch&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.and<br />
   away he<br />
   goes&#8230;..chasing the villans&#8230;.<br />
   This is called COCONUT Triggering!<br />
   &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br />
   Sequence 4<br />
   A lot of goondas(approx six) accost him&#8230;. but<br />
    wao!! suddenly Rajni<br />
   puts his hands in his pocket,<br />
   is it a gun&#8230;.??<br />
   No it is a knife&#8230;.. and u know he is not going<br />
   to use it to attack<br />
   them &#8230;. all he does is raises the knife in his<br />
   right hand and just<br />
   leaves it there&#8230;.in the air..!!! and u know<br />
   the knife starts rotating<br />
   there in the air yaar&#8230;. it needs no energy<br />
   source whatsoever and the<br />
   gravitational pull of big big mother earth has<br />
   failed..!! it rotates<br />
   like the Sudharshan Chakra&#8230;&#8230;Rajni has become<br />
   Lord Vishnu&#8230;!! How<br />
   can the Goondas fight the allpowerful Lord&#8230;<br />
   all this was just too<br />
   much<br />
   for the Goondas, they faint and fall to the<br />
   ground and Rajni&#8230; walks<br />
   of<br />
   smiling and shaking his head in his ultimate<br />
   style&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; people who<br />
   wanna drive save themselves from Goondas can<br />
   learn this stunt from<br />
   Rajni&#8230;. his e-mail id is :<br />
   RajniLord_Vishnu@stunt15.com<br />
   I Hav no Words left with me to comment on this.<br />
   &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;</p>
<p>   Sequence 5<br />
   Rajnikant sahab ke upar koi bullet fire karta<br />
   hai&#8230;.ab Rajnikant sahab<br />
   kya karenge&#8230;.very simple&#8230;.woh apne pocket se<br />
   ek blade nikalte hain<br />
   aur goli ke saamne kar dete hain&#8230;.goli head on<br />
   blade pe lagti hai<br />
   aur do parts mein cut ke different directions<br />
   mein divert ho jaati hai<br />
   aur Rajnikant sahab buch jaate hain&#8230;.<br />
   now thats what I call a close SHAVE<br />
   /<&#8211;Half of the cut bullet goes<br />
   in this direction<br />
   /<br />
   /<br />
   Path of bullet&#8212; /<br />
   &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-X O<&#8212;Rajnikant stands<br />
   here&#8230;unscathed<br />
   \<br />
   \ X is the Point of<br />
   collision with the blade<br />
   \<br />
   \<br />
   \<&#8211;The other half of the<br />
   bullet<br />
   goes in this direction<br />
   to this more spice is added creativily that at<br />
   the back of rajini two<br />
   kundoons were standing. the two parts of the<br />
   bullets hit each rowdy<br />
   killing them. just by having one blonde blade<br />
   winning three villans.<br />
   how is it???????????&#8230;&#8230;!!!!!!!!<br />
   JUSTIFICATION:<br />
   I must appreciate the stunt director for his<br />
   knowledge of physics and<br />
   metalurgy. Lets analyse this situation. The<br />
   bullet is often made from<br />
   lead, which has a low melting point and is<br />
   almost fluid when<br />
   fired.(Now,<br />
   dont ask me how those doctors pull out perfectly<br />
   shaped bullets from<br />
   the<br />
   hero&#8217;s body in movies!! God knows) A razor blade<br />
   is made of stainless<br />
   steel and we all know that a blade&#8217;s edge<br />
   is actually V shaped (with a very small angle<br />
   approx 0 degrees) So, the<br />
   fluid bullet is sliced into 2 parts and due to<br />
   its velocity, the 2<br />
   pieces are deflected at an angle leaving the<br />
   hero unharmed. Rajni must<br />
   have used a rather blunt blade coz the angle of<br />
   deflection was almost<br />
   45degrees!!</p>
<p>The movie is Farishtay&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;. and rajni&#8217;s name is ramojirao<br />
ranojirao jahdeechmal thange&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.. he actually saves actress sapna.<br />
from the goons&#8230;&#8230;. really funny&#8230;&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..climax scene from a tamil movie&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..</p>
<p>The villain shoots rajni&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;. aur apun ka rajni bhai<br />
ke pass ek hollow iron rod hota hain&#8230;..</p>
<p>he takes the bullet in to the hollow iron rod and turns it around&#8230;&#8230; the<br />
bullet hits the villain &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; <img src='http://www.jitendrajain.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>One more&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;</p>
<p>There is scene in which herione is hanging on a high volt line and the goon<br />
switches on the transformer&#8230;&#8230; rajni bapu&#8230;..<br />
runs faster than current ( actually shown) and saves the<br />
heroine&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;  jai ho raji baba ki&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
<p>One from mithun..</p>
<p>Jackie&#8230;..(his other useless sidekick)  saves a baby from a raging fire<br />
and runs down the corridor&#8230;&#8230;. he  is confronted<br />
by goons &#8230;&#8230;. so jackie bhai gets on to the wall and starts<br />
running&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;. and this scene shud have been nominated for the<br />
oscars&#8230;&#8230;.   same movie&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
<p>jackie has the baby he runs thru fire&#8230;&#8230;. soon he finds that his jeans<br />
is engulfed in fire&#8230;. he cannot put down the baby to bhujao the aag&#8230;.<br />
guess what the baby peees&#8230; and the peshab puts off  the fire&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
jackie kisses the baby and jumps off the building&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
<p>i suppose this scene is from chandaal&#8230;&#8230;..</p>
<p>One More !</p>
<p>If the Wachowski brothers saw this they would change the matrix 2 cast to<br />
Rajni (NEO) &#038; Mithun Da (MORPHEUS) !!!</p>
<p>In one movie, RajniCan&#8217;t is sitting in a college campus&#8230; under a tree..<br />
waiting for some gundaas to eve-tease.<br />
Observes that they are coming on their bicycles&#8230;<br />
Empties his pockets&#8230; finds 2 huge Iron Yoke magnets.. Twists them in the<br />
air wildly&#8230;<br />
The gundaas are lifted with their cycles in the air and are being twisted<br />
in perfect synchrony with his super magnets !!!<br />
Then puts his mags back in the pockets&#8230; the gundas fall to the ground and<br />
run away as usual !</p>
<p>ENJOY&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Root Cause of Pain</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 07:08:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a scene in 3 idiots When rancho&#8217;s name is not in list.. at bottom. his friends who have just managed to pass feel bad. When they come to know he has topped the class the feel even bad. Why? Because its human tendency to compare himself with others, the progress meter is always [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a scene in 3 idiots</p>
<p>When rancho&#8217;s name is not in list.. at bottom. his friends who have just managed to pass feel bad. When they come to know he has topped the class the feel even bad.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p>Because its human tendency to compare himself with others, the progress meter is always running in our minds.</p>
<p>For Example :</p>
<p>1. In gym, he is thinner then me,</p>
<p>2. he got more marks then me.</p>
<p>3.  he got more money then me.</p>
<p>4. His wife is more beautiful then mine.</p>
<p>5. His bike is better then mine.</p>
<p>6. He got one house, i need to have a bigger house.</p>
<p>The list is endless. Even a small nail polish to door mat is compared.</p>
<p>Recently i came to know that this tendency of comparing is encoded in our brains since birth.</p>
<p>I am known to spoil kids by giving them lots of chocolates. My sisters are annoyed by this.</p>
<p>On my sister taught my 2 year nephew not to take chocolates from me, she convinced him that by eating chocolates, he will have stomach ache.</p>
<p>When i offered him chocolate he refused, can you belive it</p>
<p>a 2 year old kid saying no to chocolate. But when in front of him, i offered same chocolate to other kid, he said he also wanted and wanted a bigger one and wanted it first.</p>
<p>Comparison in in our blood. Mind all the times.</p>
<p>This is root cause of 75% of our unhappiness.</p>
<p>Stop comparing and be happy with what we have.  The intel core 2 duo comp of mine is best as it serves its purpuse, the hero honda passion is better then pulsar as it serves its purpose well, the design of this site is better as it  looks good,</p>
<p>Be happy with what we have and never compare.  Just think about yourself, what you need do that, not what others have.</p>
<p>Hope to see you happy next time.</p>
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		<title>Time it was and what a time it was</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 11:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Time it was and what a time it was A time of innocence A time of confidences Long ago it must be I have a photograph Preserve your memories They’re all that’s left you” -Simon and Garfunkel, “Bookends]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Time it was and what a time it was<br />
A time of innocence<br />
A time of confidences<br />
Long ago it must be<br />
I have a photograph<br />
Preserve your memories<br />
They’re all that’s left you” -Simon and Garfunkel, “Bookends</p>
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		<title>Books Vs Computer &#8211; by Guljar</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 03:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Kitaabein &#8211; Gulzar&#8221; ~~ Kitaabein jhaankti hain band almaari ke sheeshon se badi hasrat se takti hain mahino ab mulakaatein nahin hoti jo shaamein inki sohbat mein kata karti thi ab aksar gujar jaati hai computer ke parde par badi baichen rehti hain kitaabein inhein ab neend me chalne ki aadat ho gayee hai badi [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Kitaabein &#8211; Gulzar&#8221;<br />
~~<br />
Kitaabein jhaankti hain band almaari ke sheeshon se<br />
badi hasrat se takti hain<br />
mahino ab mulakaatein nahin hoti<br />
jo shaamein inki sohbat mein kata karti thi<br />
ab aksar<br />
gujar jaati hai computer ke parde par</p>
<p>badi baichen rehti hain kitaabein<br />
inhein ab neend me chalne ki aadat ho gayee hai<br />
badi hasrat se takti hain</p>
<p>Jo kadrein wo sunaati theen<br />
ki jin ke Cell kabhi marte nahin the<br />
wo kadrein ab nazar aati nahin ghar mein<br />
jo rishte sunati theen<br />
woh saare udhade udhade hain</p>
<p>koi safahaa palat-ta hoon to is siski nikalti hai<br />
kai lafzon ke maane gir pade hain<br />
bina patton ke sookhe tund lagte hain wo sab alfaaz</p>
<p>jin par ab koi maane nahin ugte<br />
bahut si istalaahein hain<br />
jo mitti ki sikoron ki tarah bikhri padee hain<br />
gilaason ne unhein matrook kar daala</p>
<p>zubaan par jaaika aata tha jo safahe palatane ka<br />
ab unglee click karne se bas ik<br />
jhapkee gujarti hai<br />
bahut kuchh tah-b-tah khulta chala jaata hai parde par</p>
<p>Kitaabo se jo jaati raabta tha, kat gaya hai<br />
kabhi seene pe rakh ke let jaate the<br />
kabhi godi mein le lete<br />
kabhi ghutno ko apne rihal ki surat bana kar<br />
neem sajde mein padha karte the, chhote the zabeen se<br />
wo saara ilm to milta rahega baad mein bhi<br />
magar wo jo kitaabo mein mila karte the sookhe phool<br />
aur mahke hue rukke<br />
kitaabe mangne, girne, uthane ke bahaane rishte bante the<br />
unka kya hoga<br />
wo shayad ab nahin honge<br />
~~</p>
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		<title>Khushboo jaise log mile afsaane mein&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 03:41:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Khushboo jaise log mile afsaane mein&#8230; Ek Purana Khat khola anjane mein! Shaam ke saaye balishton se naape hain&#8230; Chand ne kitni der laga di aane mein! Dil par dastak dene ye kaun aaya hai&#8230; Kiski aahat sunta hoon veerane mein! Jaane kiska zikr hai is afsaane mein&#8230; Dard maze leta hai jo dohraane mein!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Khushboo jaise log mile afsaane mein&#8230;<br />
Ek Purana Khat khola anjane  mein!<br />
Shaam ke saaye balishton se naape hain&#8230;<br />
Chand ne kitni der  laga di aane mein!<br />
Dil par dastak dene ye kaun aaya hai&#8230;<br />
Kiski  aahat sunta hoon veerane mein!<br />
Jaane kiska zikr hai is afsaane  mein&#8230;<br />
Dard maze leta hai jo dohraane mein!</div>
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		<title>Hatred vs forgiveness</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 08:06:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Nice story with a good moral. Please go through. A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates, So [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A Nice story with a good moral. Please go through.</p>
<p>A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.</p>
<p>The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag<br />
containing a few potatoes.</p>
<p>Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates,</p>
<p>So the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag<br />
will depend on the number of people he/she hates.</p>
<p>So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name<br />
of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up<br />
to 5 potatoes. The teacher then told the children to carry with them<br />
the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet)<br />
for 1 week.</p>
<p>Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to<br />
the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, those<br />
having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 week, the<br />
children were relieved because the game had finally ended&#8230;.</p>
<p>The teacher asked: &#8220;How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with<br />
you for 1 week?&#8221;. The children let out their frustrations and started<br />
complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry<br />
the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.</p>
<p>Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. The<br />
teacher said: &#8220;This is exactly the situation when you carry your<br />
hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will<br />
contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go.<br />
If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1 week,<br />
can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your<br />
heart for your lifetime???&#8221;</p>
<p>Moral of the story: Throw away any hatred for anyone from your heart<br />
so that you will not carry sins for a lifetime. Forgiving others is<br />
the best attitude to take!</p>
<p>True love is not loving a perfect person but loving an imperfect<br />
person perfectly!!</p>
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